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There are as many ways to Paradise as there are human souls - Rumi

There are as many ways to Paradise as there are human souls – Rumi

“Does God/Allah have an ego issue?” was one of the questions asked by a Muslim girl (judging by the headscarf she wore) to a well-known (judging by the YouTube hits) and knowledgeable Muslim sheikh at a gathering in Bristol (UK). However, to my surprise he did not have an answer and dodged the question. I presume because he had never come across such a controversial question before – especially from a Muslim.

I realised more clearly there that we (and I mean all of us!) wrongly take for granted and assume that everybody in our vicinity/close circle has the same amount of faith as we do. We also pretend that everyone will find the answers to their questions without anyone actually answering them – and therefore make no effort to gauge the theological/philosophical issues that exist within our communities.

Unfortunately we Muslims (generally speaking) do not have the same ‘free spirit’ as Westerners when it comes to asking controversial questions*. We think too much about what others would think and the reaction we would get, and maybe rightly so (as it would probably get us into trouble in the “backward” and corrupt countries that most of us are from)… However, virtually all of us harbour such questions** but mostly those who are born and bred in Western countries have the desire to seek answers and the guts to ask them to a scholar and/or in front of the public. However “why this is?” is another topic for us to ponder upon – and maybe for researchers to empirically analyse.

I believe that Islamic philosophy*** has to be resurrected from its ashes by today’s knowledgeable Muslim scholars to start contributing not just to the Muslim intellect, but to the World’s way of thinking (just as it was in the ‘Golden age’ of Islamic civilisations which lay the foundations for the ‘enlightenment’ in the West). For tough questions to be adequately approached, collaborations from many fields are required, which is the main missing ingredient in the ‘Islamic’ world at present… It is quite a shame as Islam lay its foundations on the brotherhood and unbreakable bonds between the Muhajir and the Ansar. But today, the ‘Muslim’ world is a mess! All hates all!

I am glad to say however that there are signs of change with some great movements (advocating dialogue, tolerance and peace) being initiated in the Muslim world. Hope they will bear fruits soon as we are fed up of living in a world full of killing, violence and bloodshed (some supposedly being done in the name of religion)!

Getting back to the question at the start, I have thought on this issue a bit and believe the answer should have been along the lines of: “Whatever I say, it is not going to convince everyone as the real answer lies within ourselves, not in any book or scholar. However the answer is a definite NO. God does not have an ego issue. It is we who do!”

“God has created us, given us everything that we have (from our parents to our intellect); and sent us to this Earth to test us for a tiny amount of time (in the grand scheme of things). However we have paid him back with disobedience, disloyalty, negligence to his message, ignorance to his messengers who were the greatest and most kind of mankind (list can go on)… But He (The Most Merciful, The Most Gracious) is willing to forgive each and every one of us if we wholeheartedly ask for His forgiveness. He will then grant us with Paradise (forever) for the little bit of good that we did in His name (in that finite time period that we call ‘life’).”

So to say that he has an “ego issue” after all the things that he has done for us, reflects the enormous “ego issue” that we have within ourselves. I am not a scholar (wish I was!) therefore I cannot give comprehensive answers, but all I can say is that there is need for us to return back to the basics and start teaching the true essence of Islam to people, starting within our own communities (i.e. Muslim).

* Just Google search the same question, and you will see that the it has been asked repeatedly by people of other faiths or no faith, but it is quite hard to find a similar one in an ‘Islamic’ website

** Being a Muslim does not change the fact that you are still a human being like any other – with ‘human’ problems

*** I do not mean the philosophical/theological thinking done by Ibn Taymiyyah or Omar Khayyam (whose ideas are totally against the teachings of the Prophet (s.a.v) and the Qur’an) but similar to ones carried out by (Sufi) intellectuals/scholars such as Rumi, Bayazid Bastami, Al-Ghazali and Ibn Arabi. A more recent example is Said Nursi, who is a scholar of the 20th century. His ‘Risale-i Nur‘ collection is considered one of – if not the – greatest Islamic exegesis (tafsir) by many; and thus should be read by all interested in deepening their understanding of the Qur’an, the Prophet (PbuH) and Islam as a whole.

 

PS: I do not like preaching my beliefs (although I do try and give answers if I am asked) as I believe everyone’s on their own journey to find the truth about God, life and the hereafter. We may all arrive at the same conclusion through (sometimes totally) different means…

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Our eyes have been blurred with distractions
Our eyes have become blurred with distractions. We lost touch with the realities of this life.
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Hayatın anlamını araştıran/sorgulayanların çoğu zaman, dinleri ve Allah’ı tamamen yalanlayanlardan olmasını anlamıyorum; gerçekten anlamıyorum!

Soylemeliyim ki hiçbir zaman bulamayacaksınız; egonuzu (nefsinizi) yenip/dizginleyip, Hakk’ın (c.c.) önünde eğilmediginiz surece! Biraz sert bir cevap gibi gelebilir ama gerçek bu. Samimiyetle O(c.c.)’nu bulmak istersek, ben Allah’ın bize ‘doğru yol’u gosterecegine inanıyorum. Buna siz de inanın!

Shakespeare, Tolstoy, Dostoyevsky, Dickens, Orwell’i okumak/anlamak için harcadıgımız zamanın onda birini Allah’ı (şimdilik varlıgına inanın ya da inanmayın) tanımaya/anlamaya harcasak da ondan sonra kararımızı versek.

Bir köpek dahi sahibini tanıyorsa, insan kendisini yaratandan geleni hayli hayli tanır. Kendi tecrübemden konuşuyorum. Kuran’a bakın; ve size (herkesinki farklı) tesir edecek öyle ayetler karşınıza çıkacak ki “işte bu kitap beni Yaratan’dan gelmiş!” dedirtecek!


Ek: İşe nasıl bir mucize ve ne kadar önemli birisi oldugunu tefekkür ederek başlayabilirsin. Ben de (beni etkileyen) bir örnekle yardımcı olmaya çalışayım: Mesela senin gibi bir insan dünya tarihinde olmadı; olmayacak! Eşsiz bir insansın! Allah seni (evet sadece seni!) yaratmak için annenle babanı tanıştırdı ve kalplerini birbirlerine ısıttı. Annenin 300 küsür yumurtasının arasında, babanın da milyarlarca spermi arasında seni yaratacak kombinasyonu seçti. Aynı şey, anne-baban ve dede-ninelerin için de gecerli… Onların anne-babası için de… Onlardan önceki nesiller içinde… Bu halkada bir tane eksik veya degişim olsaydı, sen olmayacaktın!

Ek 2: Arzu ederseniz ‘Evrim teorisi‘ (ingilizce) ve ‘hayat gayem‘le ilgili yazdıgım eski yazılarıma da göz gezdirebilirsiniz…

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People who’ve asked me “what is the meaning of life?” had one thing in common: Outright denial of all religions and (any idea of a) God

This is what I can’t understand; I really can’t!

Most of the time, any answer I gave would be thrown back at me with distaste. Sorry but – as a friend whose willing to help you – I’ll tell you what I believe and try backing them up with as much evidence (which convinces me) as possible, but it is up to you to be convinced or not. I don’t have the power to tune anybody’s heart or mind…

For me: Without religion, there’s no* meaning to life! Otherwise life just becomes: “You live because you were born; you had no choice!”

“Life was just an accident and your sperm happens to be the (un)lucky one out of the zillions that your father produced – also the same applies to your father; and his father… You just have to put up with it.”

Having no sense of meaning in life is why many people who have no belief in God and the afterlife commit suicide or waste their life (e.g. drugs, night life, gambling, games); and the one’s who don’t, live in constant fear of death – especially when they get older…

There can only be one “true” religion in the world – others will have no, some or a lot of truth in it but can’t be the “true religion”; and everybody has to make it their primary aim to find it! We spend hours reading Orwell, Shakespeare, Tolstoy, Dostoevsky’s works (rightly so! they can teach us a lot) but rarely do we look at the books which have (trying to word it as an objective person) “supposedly” been sent to us by God himself. Why aren’t we curious about them? How many of them have we read?

The true religion has to answer all reasonable philosophical questions which come to mind, whilst not contradicting scientific and historical facts… Also this doesn’t mean that we must “like” the answers that are given. Truth almost always hurts.

I believe I’ve found it and it has stood the test of time, however what convinces me may not convince you/others. Therefore everyone’s on their own conquest to find the truth and the true religion – the thing that will give our lives a meaning.

Please see my post God of Science for a few arguments on the existence of God (and the wrong belief that current scientific knowledge in genetics is incompatible with God). Happy to discuss any points…

*Read Albert Camus and other ‘existentialist’ philosophers (e.g. Sartre, Nietzsche) if you don’t believe me – they were atheists and believed that life had no meaning, so try(!) enjoying it while lasts…

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There are as many ways to Paradise as there are human souls – Rumi

PS: There is a school of thought which believes that we’re made up of life, soul and body. Thus as long as we’re alive, the soul is tied to the body (via life). This can explain why we become unconscious (and ‘blackout’) when we faint. However when we die, we will not be unconscious as the ‘tie’ that is life (as we understand it) does not exist anymore. Thus the soul is free to travel (and get rid of the shackles/limitations of the body) and meet the Creator. Please read around the idea if interested. Happy to discuss…

PPS: I respect everyone’s beliefs – and lack of it. It is their own life choice at the end of the day! However it would selfish of me not to share/propagate something that I believe is to be true (i.e. belief in the existence of an omniscient and omnipotent God).

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